[s13silviagirl]

Well, that is a tough situation. I can tell you this though, as I was active duty and my husband was a Marine as well. I wouldn't try to talk to your fiancee about this right now. He is over there & is in a very tough situation and that would be the last thing he needs on his mind. While I agree that his mom needs something done about her, you do not want to detract his focus from his mission, possibly endangering himself or his fellow service memebers. If you can, have his sister keep you up to date about their animals and how she is doing. When he is home from Iraq would be the time to talk to him about the situation. I know it is a hard thing to deal with, but, you also have to remember he loves you and his mother. Him being thousands of miles away and not being able to help or comfort you and talk to his mother can't be something that is going to help him out, as I am sure he is missing home right now.