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Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom  I like what Tammy has said.
I also think that from your reaction, you're still very "hooked in" to this man - probably bc he wounded you so terribly. This may be your opportunity to finally set those feelings free and unburden yourself. I don't mean unburden as in - let 'er rip. I mean - say something like what Tammy is suggesting and then affirm to him and yourself in the email: "Yes, I forgive you. We no longer are tied to each other in any way or have any connection to each other. The past is in the past and I let it go. I am happy my life turned out this way and I wish you well." Or something to that effect - so that you're setting the feelings free somehow and cutting the tie. And letting him know that he does NOT have his hooks in you. Hope it goes well. |
just make it short and simple and end it there.. also i think you should definitely tell your husband.. there really shouldnt be any secrets in a marriage and he might be hurt if he found out you kept it from him. plus im sure you would not like it if your husband kept an email from you too!