I think you need to tell your hubby and out of respect for him, you and your marriage, let the ex be an ex and ignore him. He did you a favor as you said, now be true to that. A lot of time has passed and there's no need to rehash it and relive it. Don't do that to yourself, what's the point?
I know it's hard. Feelings sometimes over right the common sense. I'm sorry and I wish you well. You will make the right decision to you in the long run. |