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DvlshAngel985 · 08-14-2008, 07:21 PM

Great advice!
I'm not in the exact same boat, but I had a boyfriend once that I thought I was madly in love with. He turned out to be the kind of guy that "loves" you one minute, and then disappears the next. He ended up breaking up with me via text message and gave me an explanation via e-mail. I got a lame story about how my his old gang buddies turned on him since he left the gang and blah blah blah. He too quickly moved on with someone new. I think he was already seeing her while he was dating me. I was devastaded! I was sad. Luckily, 2 years after the breakup I too found someone great. We've been together for over 2 years. A few weeks ago the ex sent me a message as yours did.
I was annoyed and I too wanted to thank him and rub it in his face how great my life is now. First thing I did was tell my boyfriend. He's my bestfriend and I knew he would understand. We had a good laugh about it and that was the end of it. No contact whatsoever, it's not really worth it. I know it's not the same magnitude of hurt your ex cuased you, but I think the moral of the story is it's in the past. Yes I know you want answers, you want explanations, but what will you really gain?
Re-opening old wounds? What he did was hurtfull but answers won't change the great life you have now. Focus on that, and just let him know he's no longer welcome in your life. If you know your hubby would understand, let him (the ex) know what's going on and do as TammyJM advices, tell him he's no longer welcome. ENJOY YOUR HAPPY LIFE!!!

08-14-2008, 07:21 PM	#7
DvlshAngel985 Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Los Angeles, California, USA Posts: 12,693	Great advice! I'm not in the exact same boat, but I had a boyfriend once that I thought I was madly in love with. He turned out to be the kind of guy that "loves" you one minute, and then disappears the next. He ended up breaking up with me via text message and gave me an explanation via e-mail. I got a lame story about how my his old gang buddies turned on him since he left the gang and blah blah blah. He too quickly moved on with someone new. I think he was already seeing her while he was dating me. I was devastaded! I was sad. Luckily, 2 years after the breakup I too found someone great. We've been together for over 2 years. A few weeks ago the ex sent me a message as yours did. I was annoyed and I too wanted to thank him and rub it in his face how great my life is now. First thing I did was tell my boyfriend. He's my bestfriend and I knew he would understand. We had a good laugh about it and that was the end of it. No contact whatsoever, it's not really worth it. I know it's not the same magnitude of hurt your ex cuased you, but I think the moral of the story is it's in the past. Yes I know you want answers, you want explanations, but what will you really gain? Re-opening old wounds? What he did was hurtfull but answers won't change the great life you have now. Focus on that, and just let him know he's no longer welcome in your life. If you know your hubby would understand, let him (the ex) know what's going on and do as TammyJM advices, tell him he's no longer welcome. ENJOY YOUR HAPPY LIFE!!! Last edited by DvlshAngel985; 08-14-2008 at 07:23 PM.