im sorry not trying to offend anyone.. but why WOULDNT u want to be told?
and my answer is yes, i would want to be told and i would tell a friend no matter what
the only reason i would think of is the person does not want to be hurt (ironic because then you are making someone else hurt for you, and you will be living a lie) or is so insecure with themselves that they dont think they can find anyone else..