i am so sorry you have to put up with this.. im sure it must be VERY hard for you!! i would feel the SAME way if i were you!! i am so happy that your hubby was on your side and backed you up/stood up for his daughter!(im sure thats not easy for him.. but if his mom is disrespecting you-she is disrespecting her son & your daughter, as well!!) she has NO right to go against YOUR way of raising your daughter.. if she really wanted to be involved in her grandaughter's life.. she would be a little more respectful to you and your husband and a little more compassionate to your daughter! im sorry, hun! but again, SO glad hubby stood up to her!!