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Originally Posted by Judy in Waco  Probably get her evaluated to find out where the heck all that anger is coming from. Then, I'd probably go the logical consequences route and she would have to spend some time cleaning the bathroom floor and doing a load of laundry.
But, I really think there's an anger problem there. I didn't see the show though, so what do I know? lol!  |
I have twin four year old girls and some days can be frustrating and i know that me and my husband do the best we can and the girls still can be very defiant, but nothing like that! My thoughts are...your children (to a certain degree) will act the ways that you allow them to. Not nipping the problem at the bud will only lead to bad habits like this. Children are very perceptive and manipulative and know what and how they can get away with different actions.
We only resort to a spanking as an ABSOLUTE i mean ABSOLUTE last resort. I believe that when you start hitting that both parties stop listening.
We usually have a long talk with the girls and if they have any threats we explain to them the repricussions of their actions and if they follow thru with their bad actions then we dont back down on their consequences.
but everybody is different and so is every child so should their discipline.