It sounds like you are a very nice, and sensitive person. I'm sure it does suck, to be treated as second best. I think the advice about making a nice life for you and your husband and only visiting once in awhile with your family, was a good. Things aren't going to change....you either have to resign yourself to it, or remove yourself from it. You will be a stronger person for all of this, and will treat your own children fairly!
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