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Alright first let me explain i have 4 younger sisters who use to live in michigan but now live in tampa bay fl. I helped raise them up until our mom died(which is why they moved to MI) I mean I actually turned into the 2nd mother at the age of six I was doing everything, baths, changing diapers, feeding, burping.. everything my mom wasn't ready for kids but she had them anyway. Well the 2nd oldest of the 4 is a troublemaker(like ho wmy older sister was) and her and I have been arguing it all started over her myspace default pic because it was her in her bra and well yeah she's 13-14. I told her she needed to change it and was boldly honest with her why and we got into an arguement and basically she blames me for things I had no control over(aka my moms bf's). Like when my dad got custody of my older sister and I we were forced to move 4 horus away(life at my moms house was hell she had anger issues and her bfs ranged from drug addicted, alcoholics to mental/physical/sexual abusers) and she blames me for the one that was in their life until our mom died. That I didn't protect her when I wasn't even living there. The arguement got pretty bad and the 3rd older ended up writing to me and told me I had made Ciera cry so i apologized to ciera and tried to explain that I act the way I did because I DO love her and don't want bad things to happen to her and her behavior is the type that will get her into trouble.

I never got a response back until a couple days ago when she told me:
kaela look im sorry to but you started it.
and i have depression problems already you werent helping.i have anger problems to. i was just forced to move to florida. and move away from the one guy who treated me right. yeah were still together but our relationship is falling apart you in my life right now is not gonna work sorry bye.

I told her how to work with the depression(during my teenage years I had hospital visits for suicide attempts depression runs in both sides of my family) and that the anger issues are from our mom and gave her tips to help deal with them(like I had to do). But I still can't believe she wants to throw me out of her life. I don't know their phone number or address and I found out she's only home to wash her laundry and her dad has given up saying "she'll learn" I think he needs to send her to an alternative school, or military school. I mean she thinks her life is hell I think she needs to be shown that her life is pretty cozy and let her see what hell is like(military will do that for you it did it for me) Darrall(my husband) said she would hate me but I was like at least she'd be alive to hate me. When I did a registered sexual offenders search ona couple zip codes there were THOUSANDS of them and 90% of them were aimed at kids. I just don't know what to do. I wish I could of raised her over David because I would of done a better job at it.
also the raising process was 6-14 I'm 21 now.