Mikaela - Passing judgement does not make your baby better. Based on the posts that I have read over the past months, people are understanding and want to truly assist. Thank the good Lord you found the right place.
Your baby is your baby and you love her so much. Everyone here feels that same love and commitment to our babies. Our hearts break when we are helpless. Our hearts break when something happens and we feel responsible. Remember though, our hearts sing at the sight of our babies. I truly believe that my baby's hearts sing when they see me too.
Love her. Give her attention. Provide her structure/discipline. Never be conditional. She will always love you unconditionally.