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Originally Posted by Graleyne  I DO feel guilty. However he has got to go. All joking aside, it was seriously beginning to cause issues in my marriage. Nothing really, BAD, but issues. Mostly just both of us being really stressed out, and then DH working 12+ hours a day and coming home to me complaining about DUG and listening to me and DUG argue. It just isn't a very good situation.
I just feel like I have this ball of anger turning over and over in my stomach and HATE feeling like that. Just about everyone has caught little pieces of it even though I've tried to keep it stuffed down in there. Most of it has been directed at DUG, but I have just been snappy with everyone lately.
I think that DUG is a very grey person. "Grey" is my term for those people who just suck the life out of you and leave you just emotionally drained and exhausted. (I think I may have gotten the term from a Sylvia Browne book)
Anyway, he has to be out by Friday, and it can't get here soon enough! |
girl ..I feel your pain. DO NOT FEEL GUILTY ! This 'Dug' sounds like he's sucking the life out of everyone he mooches off of -
take it from Sammiz...she really knows what she's talking about. If someone isn't willing to take charge and help themself - then they will never change and you can't do it for them. We're all in charge of our actions and can't expect people to 'take care' of us (with the exception of someone who is down on their luck but trying)
I don't see how you can help this person any more than you already have....