It's not a weird question. hmm usually my 3 are always playing with each other, keep each other entertained when im home. If im online like right now, either one or 2 of them are sitting on my lap, or my bf is playing with them, or they are watching tv with my bf. Sometimes i will just throw a bunch of toys on the floor, but then they always want what the other has lol So in response to your question, i would say its half and half. If im not entertaining them sometimes my mom is, but i will also take them to the park for a long time and then by the time we get back they are pooped