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Originally Posted by melmel84  Actually very helpful. We have been together for 3 1/2 years. The house is both of ours (but in my name). We share bills with the exception of vet bills (i pay for those). We will most likely get married one day, it has been discussed.  He is absolutely in love with Tino, our little furbaby, and is always laying on the floor playing with him. He did NOT want tino at all, may I add, and when he saw him he fell instantly head over heals in love with him. So I don't know how to read this situation. I know he will love Tino's offspring. He jokes about the name I always said I'd give a neww puppy if I got one. Which would be "Onit" <---Tino backwords becuase it would be his son. (I am corny I know) Hmmmmm.....This is a tough one! |
Sometimes it helps when offering advice to see the whole situation, so that's why I ask further into it, kwim?
Obviously you guys are very serious and his opinion counts as you have future plans with each other, lol! I just didn't know if it was a new relationship, not serious and who knows if the bf would even be around down the road to have you miss this opportunity that you have so much hope for. I'm glad you saw my questions in a good way and how I was trying to help, not hurt or anything bad like that
I was hoping they wouldn't come off the wrong way. Whew
, it's so hard to put your intentions and thoughts on the computer sometimes, lol!
I really like Onit, that is very creative.
Tino & Onit
Keep us updated on what you guys decide to do.