thanks all. Ive said something to SO and he's going to tell his mom. he didnt realize she was feeding him french fries even though he was right there (too busy stuffing his face i assume). this way its not ME saying something like i always do. he also is quite concerned with Bindi's well being and does not want to get her sick just to save some feelings.
shes doing better now(no more vomiting) thanks for asking
shes just napping and is back on her mommy and vet approved diet.