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Originally Posted by celstu1  Its been a LONG road. Ive shed sooo many tears, lost some friends, gained so much strength, read sooo many books, lived numb... its amazing the realm of emotions that goes through you when something traumatic happens. We owned a house together and it was like we got divorced. It tore me apart for sooo long. I met someone this past January who I feel is my soul mate. I cannot imagine a day w/o him. I don't love him in that childish, passionate, obsessive way that I loved my ex. I love him in a comfortable, calm, content way and know that he would never do to me what my ex did. He makes me feel safe and secure. He is reliable and comfortable yet still fun and passionate. I feel like such a lucky girl to have 2 great loves. One that burnt out but was filled with so much at one time, and another that can and will sustain a lifetime I truely believe.  |
Congratulations!! I live for the day that I can hear my beautiful daughter say what you just did! She was married for 10 years to the love of her life, has two beautiful children and is still so brokenhearted! I would never have believed that he would have cheated on her and he broke my heart too! She wants so badly to move on but still keeps that little ray of hope that one day they will remarry and live happily afterafter!
Yes, I still hug him and tell him that I love him ... he is the father of my grandchildren and they are watching ... we never, ever say anything negative about him. They love their Dad and when they are old enough to figure out for themselves ... so be it! I am so very happy that you met someone who deserves a wonderful person such as yourself and I pray that someday my Amanda will also. It's so very hard for a Mom to watch her child in pain but we just keep reminding ourselves that "all things work together for good .... "! God bless you!