Wow Alaskayorkie - that was some response!
As I read your answer it was perfectly clear to me why and how admin reacts - and I see very clearly the nessecity (sp?) of locking threads.
I also see from the answers that a thread can take a wrong turn in a heartbeat turning from one topic to the next, from my question to wether the admin is doing a great job - which was not
my question.
I also remembered another thing - I always advise my clients to stop using SMS to communicate anything but informative message "I'll be 10 mins late" "plz buy milk on your way home" etc - no arguing, questioning or discussing.
I do this because arguments can turn out bad so fast because the parties can't see each other and therefore sometimes looses their sense of responsability.
I have seen so many hurt people from SMS quarrels - and they are much harder to solve than face-to-face quarrels
And of cause the EXACT same applies to yorkietalk - we can be supportive, informative and enlightening, but if we argue we might end up hurting each other - without wanting to of course!
We may not be a church but in some ways we are "the cult of people who loves yorkies" - and I like that!
Thank you all for sharing your point of view with me on this, now my head can rest easy on my pillow every night
