I have been on this forum for a few months now and I like it so much

It is much better than Danish forums because people are more considerate and supportive.
But I sometimes feel I miss a lot!
Obviously I sleep during YT's peek hour - where you all come to chat and have fun.
First of all I really miss being a part of that too, I am sure you have so much fun and interesting conversations on the chat.
Second of all, every conflict there is begins, escalates and stops during peel hour - and that means that I often wake up to read what has happened while I slept - someone got banned, someone lied, someone said something nasty.
And I am never there to be a part of the team that tries to soothe things down. Sometimes I feel a little cheated because Admin usually closes bad threads long before I get a chance to write something in them.
To me that comes of as a kind of censurship, as if it is not ok to disagree, to argue or be mad at each other on YT - it is probably just because I am not there but sleep through it all, but it still gives me a weird feeling of lack of freedom of speech.
I wish someone can tell me - Admin or anyone - that this is in fact not the case and that it really is because I sleep through it all.
The reason I need an explanation is that I can feel I start being worried that I might say something wrong and get my threads locked or be banned for just asking a question or commenting on something - I KNOW this won't happen in my head, but in my heart I am still a bit scared of being rejected from YT.
So anyone please explain to me the nature of things, so I can stop worrying