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Originally Posted by Graleyne  That is EXACTLY what he does - float from one family member to the next. He works at a job long enough for child support enforcement to catch up with him the either quits or gets "fired".
I said after the last time (which was over a year ago) that he was NOT coming back, but everyone else said the same thing so he truly had no place to go. I can't let anyone live on the street if I can help it. Especially not in this Georgia heat.
I made it very clear this time that he is NOT a guest. Until he has a full time job he is HIRED HELP in my home working for meals and a place to sleep.
I also made it clear that it costs MONEY to run the television and a/c 24 hrs a day and since he isn't able to pay the difference in the utility bill those things won't be used very often. I'll suck up the cost of extra water from him showering daily though lol. |
It really amazes me how someone can live like that. Then to top it all off some woman was stupid enough to think he was responsible and suitable to be a father.
I think it's great you gave him a deadline and you need to stick to them guns. Let this truly be the last time you help him. If people keep giving in to him and letting him live like that then for sure he will not change.