[Graleyne]

Thanks ya'll. I am feeling a little better today. I sat down and wrote out the rules and made him sign them. I did this with DH present and with his support.

He thought we should take a vote on some of the rules <insert rolling of my eyes here>.
I informed him that I was not running a democracy here. I am the supreme ruler and dictator and if he disagreed with the way I run my home the front door isn't very difficult to find.

He said I am a neurotic germaphobe. I once again directed him to the front door.

He asked if he could have meat if he bought it himself. I told him not in my home. We are vegetarians well on our way to going completely vegan.

So basically I laid down the law and stuck to my guns. Some of it may sound harsh but he has taken advantage and run over me in the past and I will not allow him to this time. Luckily DH finally sees him for what he is and is on my side.