[abbey lee]

Originally Posted by Graleyne

My issues with this man are as follows:

1. This is about the SIXTH time we have taken him in in 8 yrs.

2. He has no money, no job, no home, no license, no car, no ambition and its all everyones fault BUT HIS!

3. He is 46 yrs old going on 10

4. He actually had the audacity to say to me once (and truly believe at the time) that he had more of a right to be in MY home with MY husband because he was family! He has since been set straight. Guess if I didn't kill him then I probably won't.

5. He is a slob and rarely showers unless I say something. He has gone WEEKS with no shower.

6. He is OBSESSED with the online games EverQuest and Second Life and talks about them constantly and I do mean constantly.

7. He does very little to help out around here and what little he does he only does when DH is home so that it looks to DH like he is trying. However DH works nights and sleeps during the day and this is when T does nothing but watch television, read, and play video games.

The list goes on...and on...and on....

The ONLY reason he is here is because he was truly going to be on the streets if he didn't come here.

This sounds so mean to say, but he smells. He smokes (outside) but the smell sticks to him and anything he touches like glue AND he has the worst BO of anyone I've ever met. I am constantly going behind him with air freshener and bleach (I try to do it so he doesn't notice - I don't want to be rude and I try to make it look just like regular cleaning if he does notice)

I am just trying very hard to keep my patience and my temper in check because I have next to none of either one when it comes to him.

Thanks for all the prayers. I really need and appreciate them.

Ick. Sounds bad. You're aweome for taking him in, many people would say no. Especially after #4!!