Oh and if what you said is true which I don't doubt you about the abuse situations on your part you can get court appointed visitation rights in supervised (quthout your mother) and I would suggest seriously sitting down and talking to your daughter. Find out what she wants. How she feels. Tell her what and how you feel but don't PUSH her. She is young anf yet she probably is like any other teenager and feels like she has the right to make all the decisions in her life. Not saying she should lol but we all know what teenagers are like especially stubborn ones. But you could do more damage you yalls relationship if she feels like you are backing her into corner and attacking her. Dawn told me all the time that she missed me and loved me to the point that we couldn't carry a real conversation. She needs to feel like you respect her. And especially if her grandparents are pushing her top it may make her rethink about who she feels more comfortable being with. But seriously get the court to allow you a one on one visit and talk with her. Don't plead or beg express your feelings but let her express hers. She is old enough and this serious enough to hold an adult conversation. But do tell her you love her and want what's best for her no matter what it is. |