Here's some more info. Cleo the 5 month old (the subject of the aggression) came first, then Ceasar (the 6 month old male), then Princess (18 month old female and recently had a heat). I have not favored any of them over the other. It is when I pay attention to him that he gets awful with Cleo. He never gets that way with Princess.
Up to yesterday, they were all together except when Princess was in heat. I literally have to stay in the kitchen when they are all together. I don't get involved unless it gets ugly. In fact they were all tearing around the house playing great last night and then in the middle of the night when Cleo made a move toward me on the bed he attacked her. He started out on the bed and then went in the crate. Then he whined and I put him back up until it happened again and then he spent the rest of the night in the crate.
I work full time and I could not get anything done at work worrying about them if they were all together when I was not home. I go home for lunch to let them out and play with them. I am home every night with them as well.
He was a little shy when I got him, but got along with Cleo from the start.
I refuse to give up on him...He is part of my family. If I have to neuter him, then I will, but then that's not even a guarantee he will chill if it's in his nature.
This is all so disconcerting....thanks guys for your input! |