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Originally Posted by Nancy1999  She asked for advice, and I gave it. There is a difference between being supportive and being an enabler. If she had said she was waiting for a job opening or finishing school, my advice would be different, but she waiting for someone to die before she can have the funds to have a home. You need to be able to care for yourself before you can care for a pet. I stand by my advice and suggest that since she is young, and has no children, it would also be a good idea to acquire a set of skills that are marketable, and will enable her to provide a home for herself, and others. |
I agree with Nancy, and I don't think she was being harsh at all. I think she sounds very wise.