I wanted to thank everyone for replying
I am trying to calm down and i will re-read all the posts. Hard to think clearly when you are upset. I brought him down to talk to him and he knows what he did was wrong. I asked him what he should have done and he gave me the right answer. So i know he know's what is right and what is wrong. I also asked him why he is behaiving like this all he will say is I don't know
I guess it is time for some extra tough love around here. I told him that Kaleb looks up to him and he isn't setting good example for him. We are taking all privledges away from him for a week and some permaently untill he can choose the right desicions. I am also calling the police dept on Tuesday to see if there is something they have that will help me. I feel the only way to get him back on course is some tough love and some fear. Hopefully i can regain control i feel so helpless. I do appreciate all your support i really needed it today. This is why i love my YT family so much thank you all!!!