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Originally Posted by chloeandj  do you ever catch him doing something nice or expected of him and praising the heck out of him? maybe ignoring some of the smaller bad thigns he's doing (maybe it's attention getting behavior) while picking your battles here as really bad things should not be ignored.. and then turning the tables into everything is postive. If he helps brother do anything at all, big time praise. Some alone mommy time might not be a bad idea. |
Yup i have done that to
Just the other day he was being so sweet he was pushing his brother on the swing the were being sooooo good and i told them i really appreitiated them being good, I also praised Trieden for helping his brother and being nice. I kid you not 5 min later he was fighting with him i was standing right there and as i told Trieden not to get on the back of Kalebs bike he flipped him over and hurt him
sorry i guess i needed to vent i was just in such shock when i woke up
I watch the super nanny and i try to apply her techniques but they don't seem to work i am not saying all of them don't cause i have had sucsess with the time out. But at 8 yrs old where do you draw the line i mean really he knows better.