I would agree that there are still unresolved issues here that prevent you from getting rid of the ex. Even if all you do is go through the box and sort through, and throw out some of it, you are taking a step in the right direction.
I understand that everyone has a history and some of that history includes good memories. However, those good memories also help to justify why you were in the relationship and also has a tendency to overshadow the reason you're no longer in the relationship.
Your current guy sounds like a definite keeper. Even though he is supportive and listens to your rants about the ex eventually this will get old. Sometimes you just have to cut the cord completely. Next time you find yourself ranting to your current guy, ask yourself if it is worth the breath and the time it is taking away from you and your guy enjoying each other. That might add a new perspective.
Hugs-
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