Shoebox of letters from the Ex...normal?? Alrighty...
First question- is it okay to keep a shoebox full of old letters from the ex?!
Is that normal? I don't throw anything away, which I realized as I was going through everything trying to pack for my big move on Monday. I found valentine cards from the 4th grade!!!!!!!!
I'm 22 and moving in with a new BF. As some of you know I was with my ex for 5.5 years and living with him for 3 of those years.
My main point here is that my current BF is THE MOST SUPPORTIVE BF in the entire world. We met a year ago (re-met actually, but that's a whole new thread) and he has been my bestfriend for a year now. Truly my best friend. I went through hell and back this past year and he has been my support system.
Basically, I talk about my X a lot. A lot... there is still a lot of drama about it. He says it kills him inside, but he toughs it out and is my friend first and foremost and if I need to talk/vent/ whatever about anything (even stuff about the X)...
Back to original topic. He knows about the shoebox. He thinks it'll do me good to chuck the letters. I can't (reallyreally) can't do that. But I also can't see us having that showbox under our bed at the new apartment in a week.
What would/have you girlies/men done?
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