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Originally Posted by Too Cute Teddy  We have talked about our future and getting married and he openly says that he wants to. I wantto get married in my church with my family and friends and I know it doesn't have to be huge or anything, but I want a ceremony and so does my bf. I told him last night that I don't want the house to replace a marriage and he said he knew and neither did he so I guess I just have some decisions to make. He is the most honest and caring person I know - he is the type that would try to help anyone, and he is definately risking more financially. I do appreciate the honest advice! |
You can do both, particularly if you're really wanting just the ceremony part with family and friends. If you buy the house, the reception could be in the back yard and done really nice as well!!!!! I don't think you have to give up one or the other. I completely agree with the importance of celebrating with family and friends, but the extravagance of weddings today is simply ridiculous for a day you will only remember snippets of!!! I am really glad you said the two of you want to commit to each other - that makes all the difference. And living together and being married are two very different things. The piece of paper that makes it formal does make a difference!!!
Good luck with whatever you decide. Hugs!!!!!