Im getting really frustrated. Since I have had Tess, I am not able to shower Chloe with the attention she was used to (which was ALOT) and by no means is Chloe being neglected, I can assure you this. I still hold her plenty and love on her plenty and she sleeps with me and sits on or near me for most of the day, but this is not enough and she is constantly acting out. Chloe likes Tess so I have no jealously problems there, thank goodness. BUt Chloe is upset about sharing me. She keeps pooping and peeing in the house. Its very deliberate because she always does it after Ive let them outside to potty. She also keeps tearing up stuff and she will even do it right in front of me. And she keeps getting into trash or plastic bags, or papers. Penny is Chloe's accomplice when it comes to getting into trash. In attempt to keep part of the house off limits and keep things organzied and clean I have baby gates and I keep doors shuts and I even hide my guest bathrooom trash in the actual bath tub becasue this was the only way to keep Penny from getting to it. But none of this works very well because Penny has figured out how to open doors using her nose and she can also open baby gates

AND now Penny can apparently reach the trash in the bath tub

I'm really sick this week and I left the house for 20 minutes today to pick up a prescription and I came hom to tissue being shreaded everwhere and they ate the bathroom trash

. Chloe of course had evidence on her face. Chloe had also pee'd on the bathroom floor. Im getting really tired of this. What can I do? This is all my fault for spoiling her isnt it?