I talked to my friend this afternoon and she told me that her daughter is fine, she looks & acts fine and hasent been affected by this at all. I see it differently though and think she is keeping everything inside, I mean how does a little girl process what happened? Especially when she called that guy "Daddy" The baby also asked about him and my friend basicly told her he wasnt coming home not now and maybe not ever, and the baby told her that she was sad and she understands he did a bad thing but she misses him.
My friend told me that he is getting 5 yrs in jail, probably even less but they have it at 5yrs now. To me that doesnt seem like enough.
And sadly my friend is thinking about staying with him, and maybe going to couseling when he gets out to fix this, but she's not sure the law would allow him to be around her daughter


I'm so mad at my friend, I understand she is in shock but she isnt dealing with this. She told me that she is just going to write it off as the past and move on.
I'm at a loss on how to help her