I am really sorry you feel this way. When I ws younger and quite a bit more stupid, I went thru this situation. Only I was the other girl. The one that became distant and stopped talking to my friend. We had been really close for many years and then all of a sudden she decided she was gonna move to Alabama with her boyfriend. She told me and then 1 week later she was gone. In my mind I couldnt handle it. On the one hand I was very jealous and whenever she would try and talk about this new life she had that I wanted (not with her man, but in general. I thought I was terminally single at the time) I would act like I didnt care or say something mean or change the subject. On the other hand I was like what the hell? We have been friends for 10 years you have known him for 6 months and he is more imortant than me to you???? Whatever I dont need you anymore. Well things didnt work out....and she came home.....it took us a few months to mend things, but luckily she is very forgiving and we are as close as can be. But to this day I am still ashamed of my behavior....that my jealousy kept me from being able to just be happy for her. |