you know i posted in another thread that my brother-n-law is paralized due to desert storm. and my father-n-law went to vietnam, he is the sweetest man on earth. but my mother-n-law was telling me that since he came back he has nightmares everynight that i witnessed myself, he's even choked her in his sleep thinking he was in vietnam
sometimes in his sleep he will also be punching the walls so hard his hands would bleed, not realizing he's home. he will only talk about certain things that went on in vietnam, it has affected him horribly, my father n law is in his late 60's and now you can see the affect the war had on him with his health. everyone in my husbands family has been in the military now their all retired except for my husband who's still active. my mother n law has seen and felt sooo much heartache from war and she as well as the whole family is terrified to death about my husband leaving next year.