[Tammyh]

I agree, teachers are way too quick to "diagnose" ADHD with kids. My nephew was "labeled" ADHD by his 2nd grade teacher. Knowing him the way I do I knew there is no way this kid is ADHD. The teacher & principal kept pushing his parents to medicate him. They took him to his doctor who referred him to a specialist for testing and guess what? No, he is not ADHD. This kid can sit for hours doing something he likes, obviousely the problem was the teacher. Even though they have written documentation from the specialist that he is not ADHD, the "title" followed him for several years (he's in 6th grade now). All it takes is one teacher to ruin a kid for life when it comes to school or even socially. Every kid that I know who had a teacher when they were young that singled them out in a negative way has had self-esteem issues. These teachers just don't realize the damage they do to these kids. And it doesn't matter if it's private or public school. I've been very blessed with good teachers with all 3 of my kids in public school but my nephew goes to private school and some of his teachers were nightmares. I'm certainly no expert on the issue but I would definitely have him tested by specialist before I would even consider putting him on meds, even if the results were positive for ADHD I would try other natural methods of treatment. I'll tell you one thing, diet does make a difference. With my nephew, he couldn't seem to sit still. His parents changed his diet, no more sugar cereals - eggs or other healthy breakfasts instead and they did see a difference. I wish you well, my heart goes out to you. I'm glad to hear he'll be going to a different school next year, let's hope his "title" doesn't follow him. I would look at his student folder to see what's been written about him. Best of luck in dealing with this, my prayers are with you both.