Okay she has not tested yet She is waiting until in the morning. I am beginning to get the impression that she wants to be. I know this sounds werid but you would have to know my sister. She is not really upset and has a rebuttal for every explanation I come up with for her syptoms. I am beginning to wonder if she does not think that if she gets pregnant that her and him can get married this summer. Their orginal plan failed so I hope to GOD this is not the backup plan. This morning when I talked to her she was not upset like I imagined she would be. I have seen several of the girls I went to school with and not a one of them was as calm as she is. She is not really that mature to be that way. Even as mature as I was at 18 my one scare I was terrifed and I had been dating my BF now DH for about 4 years
I don't mean to sound like I am being a witch about this but something isn't jiving with her normal response to things. I don't think this guy is good for her at all. She never leaves the house except for school and work and throw a fit if she does not talk to him every hour of the day I had a steady BF in school but I also spent time with friends and could go a couple days without seeing him or talking to him if needed. I don't know how to put this but I don't think his emontial state is right and he is keeping her so wrapped up in him she is losing herself. i miss the sister that used to go places w/ me , my boys my mom. Now it is a struggle to get her away from him even though he lives nowhere near her. Sorry to be such a longwinded complainer but I am so gald y all are here. |