So sorry for everything that you are going thru but everything has a way of working out. You seem to have a lot of things planned out, that's a geat start! A little it of advice that I can offer is to make a fresh start of everything. If you have had any thoughts about redecorating, this is the time. I truly believe that a fresh start is a healthy one. Good luck and best wishes with whatever you decide to do, you will do the right thing!