I think it's great that you encourage you kids to be themselves! Both of my sons grew up to be wonderful men, the younger one had his hair various colors, but who cares? I think good kids have to do SOMETHING different like that. As long as they know that their mom is always on their side, like you obviously are, they will turn out great. It's easy to tell by the video how happy your daughter is, and how sweet you are to her. I think it's great that your son wants to play the flute. He must be a brave guy that knows what he wants! Thanks for sharing the video