I admit that I'm just as guilty as you are for this. I would rather spend the holidays with my folks and it is getting to the point my hubby is the same way, but his parents brought that on themselves. Christmas we always have his sides two days before Christmas and my side Christmas Eve which is pretty fair and nobody ever complains about that. Thanksgiving is always on my side, but we hate the travel they want everyone to do on his side. His family all lives within 20 minutes of each other except his aunt and she lives an hour away, but Thanksgiving they think everyone should travel up to her.
Easter we always have at our house. We invite both sides but usually my parents are the only ones that show up. I think it's great that you get along with your husbands side so well. I wish it wasn't so weird when I visit hubbys side. I'm always left out. If they treated me good I wouldn't mind going there more often and for the holidays. So I'd be grateful for that.