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And a lot of men will try to tell you that "all men look at it" and that its "normal". Its not normal, and its not ok ever, for anyone.
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Oh yes--my ex tried to make me believe it was my problem for not understanding.
I understood all right. I understood it made me feel less than and tore away at my self esteem.
Not all men do though. I am married to one now who does NOT. The only time he's been in a strip club was when the feature he was working on was filming in one.
Of course, he's from Europe and I sometimes wonder about how Europeans having a much healthier and open view and speaking about sex makes the difference?
My 19 yr old DS recently said he sees no reason to ever go to a club.
I hope he holds that thought.
I never understood it. It would be like me as woman going to a chocolate factory and not being able to taste any.
