[4doggiemama]

Originally Posted by LouisLove

. They have always had "maids" to do all their cleaning and I just refuse to have someone else clean up the two rooms and one bathroom we have, it's just not necessary, so my hubs "needs direction" he can not see that the trash is full, or that we need to vacuum or that the toilet needs to be scrubbed, so I do it and the laundry and the grooming and dog walking and plan for his appointments and never hear a thank you!!!!!

If your dh has grown up with "maids" then I highly doubt if he has a clue what housework (i.e. cleaning up the trash) consists of. I've been married 35 yrs. and I still expect my dh to read my mind and do this or that. When I get annoyed he reminds me that he can't read my mind and that I need to tell him. That does get old though. There are men who automatically do house-chores but most do not see what needs to be done, IMO.