[Potter]

I totally hear what you are saying and I can relate. I am currently living with my in-laws too. We have many more months to go before we move to our own house. We also have hubby's brothers living under the same roof. It can be hard at times. While my MIL is okay, there are still times when things become weird and you don't have a clue what is going on. It seems that when things go wrong, it is always your fault although you are the last person to find out what happened. Its an assumption but its never told to your face so you don't even get a chance to defend yourself and now I don't even care to do so anymore because nothing can change their mind. Also, there are lots of expectations going on. You should do this that this that and after you do it, it is not good enough, never is so being me, I stopped and do what I need to do, find myself a job.My FIL he can go to the extent of asking everyone in the house if they want a piece of fruit but you and you are there right in the middle of everyone. He does it when my hubby is not home. It might be a small thing but it is not courteous at all. It shows how much you are not accepted as a family member and really sometimes no one can blame you when you don't feel like one.