I am so sorry to hear this sweetie, right know you need to put your marriage if not already in God's hands. You have been with your spouse for 10 years. No way and no how am I saying you should put up with his mess, because you should not have to. I would address the issue to him and seek counseling for his behavior. Try this before jumping into a divorce. Work through your problems. If there are alot of other things going on and you are to that point you feel you are giving more and not receiving or it is just weighing you down to a point you feel like your not yourself than this relationship my be unhealthy for you. Girl pray about it and keep praying. I feel for your hurt and am hear for you. |