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Originally Posted by cariblonde  First of all let me say how touched I am that everyone is so kind I really feel like I have an extra support system out there it really means a lot but My husband and I are getting Divorced, the pics I found were of him and someone else and i just cant get that out of my head, I cant forgive him just yet, I just cant believe he could do something like that and then put them on the computer!! I guess maybe he was emailing them then forgot to erase the folder it is a struggle just to get out of bed and go to work I feel like I cant even breathe....... |
Oh honey, I'm so sorry. You have to get yourself together and be strong
and think this thing threw with a clear head. There are many things to
consider. Have there been problems, is this a one time thing, the two of
you have a history together do you really want to throw that away?
It depends on all these circumstances. What he did was the worst that
can happen in a marriage it broke the trust but only you can deceide
if your marriage is worth saving but you need time to think things threw
clearly after the anger leaves you and you do have a reason to be angered
and dissapointed and violated. Women are the stronger of the two.
Men think with a thing called (you know what) most of the time and their
brains just leave them! I am sure you will make the right decision for you
but don't be too hasty in it. Think things threw with a clear head.
I wish you good luck in your decision and a happier life in the future.
You only get one time around in this life so make sure you pick what's
best for YOU.