[missj2007]

Originally Posted by Baby Madeleine

I know how you feel. I felt the same way until recently when I got engaged

It's no big deal when you aren't interested in marriage or kids, but when that is what you want it's hard to watch everyone around you have the experiences.

I agree . Now with the age issue my aunts on my father's side waited until they were 40 and up to have their kids because they were into adavancing their careers and are doing quite well, on my mom's side my aunts had their children young and were married young. My grandmother believes every woman should have at least one child. I don't believe it because children are not for everyone and a person will come to know this on their own not by someone telling them if they should or shouldn't. With genetics well we all have things that come up in our family down the ine or whatever. I still want to have kids even though my family is ridden with diabetes and high blood pressure, not because I want to pass on bad genes but because I want there to be future smart and animal lover people like me in this world when I am long gone lol