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					Originally Posted by Ponyup  Just tell him what you want.  My husband was such a woosie about taking rings.  That's why I made the first move.  Our first date was because my brother was chirping in his going your not going to call her blah blah blah.  So when i was ready and thought it was time i told him that i loved him very much and would really like to marry him.  and he said okay and we started looking for rings. and then he actually porposed to me. | 
 
  I think we get this romantic notion of the man we love getting on his knees with a ring in his hand! I finally asked my sweetie: Honey, are you gonna marry me or what? He said 'sure I'm gonna marry you'. The very next day he showed up with a ring and proposed! Sometimes they're scared and once you open up the gate they come right on in!