I have that problem with my neighbor's kids. Fortunately, I don't feel bad about hurting their feelings because they are not family. They live next door and they are my daughter's age so they are over often. Tucker goes in his xpen when they are over. I will let them handle him ocassionally and only when I can strictly supervise. I have laid down the rules that he is never to be picked up. I also have a playroom in my basement and that is the only place they are allowed to play in my house. Because they are downstairs is isn't noisy upstairs. If it were family though, I think it would be harder, especially with an expecting female. I agree with the other posts that you should just tell the truth as nicely as you can. Good luck! |