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Originally Posted by orinskye he came from a low income sitution and he was VERY poor, his mom and dad were kinda scary and INSISTED that they dont use that language that it was the neighbors (yeah right) , when i asked why he would call me something that hurtful he said "thats what my dad calls my mom".......
as far as the child hitting me, he was foreighn.... and i was "giuding him" in line by holding his hand (he didnt want me to help him obvisouly) so he got mad and hit me, when we told him to tell his dad what he did he started speakign in farce and and the dad looks up and says "YOU HIT MY CHILD".... there was almost an interdepartmental war about this one, we all had to write statements (thank god i had lots of witnesses) |
I did some substitute teaching when i couldnt' find work adn I was just amazed at the language i heard and the behavior i saw. I was teaching 6th grade and in the middle of a social studies class a child raised his hand so i called on him and he asked me point blank "if my boobs were real or fake" i told him that's not social studies related after class I had a talk with him adn he said so and so told him to and told him so and so not in trouble. I didn't know what else to do so i told the teacher next door and he sent him to the office. This kid was a preachers kid and when his mom found out she made him right a 3 page paper with sources on sexual harrasment. I read the paper and it made me sad because he was a great writer and obviously very bright and that what makes me so scared about having kids. because i could do a good job with my kids but then they get in this atmosphere and want to fit in and what to be liked and think this is the way. To make rude comments or misbehave. When i was in school the popular kids were the smart kids, the athletes they were respectful from good homes. Now the kids that are popular are the ones that are disrespectful and misbehave. How do you deal with that as a parent? The bad kids are the minority anymore they now seem to be majority or at the very least half.