Thanks for the information, I did end up asking nicely for reference and she was very nice. I called a few people and so far no problems
She was great with my questions too, she said that she likes that I am asking all the right ones and I even offered her information on myself with out her asking for it
She did say that she was going to call our vet just to make sure it all good on my end too. So Hopefully in the middle of April I will be getting my Girl!