I appreciate all your responses and opinions, It just really got under my skin b/c (and i hate to say this) I think she is somewhat jealous of my husband since we have been friends for so long and she is not married so she finds every way possible to ridicule him and put him down, she thinks it's HIS tradition to drink at a baptism
I told her I just wanted to have some wine for guests that enjoy that with their meal and as soon as i see anyone getting to the point of intoxication no more...... and I know if she comes she will drink
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