Joy, I am just now reading this post. First of all I want to apologize to you for the negative or sarcastic responses you got. They were all uncalled for. People can state their opinions but should do it in a kind way. Second, I want you to know that I will lift up you and your family in my prayers. May God keep his loving arms around you and your mom and her precious baby. I know this is a VERY hard time for all of you. Again, I am sorry that some of the yt'ers felt they had to be rude to you.