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Originally Posted by Nikki+2  I don't know if it's fair to your husband. I can't help but look at it in reverse. If 5 days after I got Sugar (who I bonded with instantly), my hubby said he hadn't bonded with Sugar and wanted to return him I would have flipped. Now if my husband really couldn't stand having Sugar around I would have taken him back but I would have really resented my husband for making me. If your husband has bonded with Leo wouldn't returning him hurt him? Does that make any sense? |
this makes perfect sense.. but I am now wondering if this puppy has bonded with hubby more as he can feel wanted and loved with hubby.. if hubby is doing the taking him outside, and loving him and paying attention to him.. he will naturally go to him.. If my hubby told me he did not bond.. it would be to bad so sad.. I want him and if I am willing to help with him, he is staying..
But that is me.. I am sensing a little tenseness in you.. you first puppy that is small... you could be scared to death of hurting him, doing something wrong with him.. my hubby thought my last new girl was ugly.. and now he has fallen for her and of course love is in the eye of the beholder.. now he is saying she is getting so pretty... LOL
I think being told you only have a couple days to get your money back your in panic mode.. but gee it takes a baby be new longer then that short time to feel he is at home now.. and is as much loved.. post a picture.. we will all tell you what we think...
If you really hate him, then maybe he is better off going back.. but I bet should you keep him, and once your relaxed, and he gets into your heart.. you will be worse then your hubby.. I have been around these little guys a long time..
I could go on.. but I must leave room for others..